Friday, May 26, 2017

The struggle of a Single girl in her 30s

The struggle of the life of a 30 year old single gal…

I’m beginning to think I’m a little too set in my ways.  I hate when I'm trying to do something...like read, or watch a movie, and I keep getting interrupted by texts.  Sometimes I want to say "This is too much!"

Being a girl in her thirties, dating is tough.

First, you have everyone and their brother reminding you about your biological clock.  I wish it was tangible so I could take a hammer to it, honestly. 

Secondly, much of the dating pool has been married and divorced. Now, I’m not at all opposed to dating someone who’s been divorced. Things happen, life happens, mistakes are made, and we’re all human. But many times you only hear their side of what caused the divorce…and I, ever the skeptic, am left wondering what really happened. And if there are kids involved, I want to make sure that I’m not jumping into something with a ton of baby mama drama.

Thirdly, and this has recently come to my attention, as I didn’t realize that my comings and goings were gossip fodder for some. EVERYONE HAS AN OPINION ABOUT WHO YOU’RE DATING. And by God, being in a small town, you’d better make sure your car isn’t parked in someone’s yard after sunset. It is insane.

Lord help, y’all. I don’t know that I’m cut out for this. I’m going to start collecting cats now.

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